My Journey to Owning My Voice
For a long time, I believed that powerful people were just born that way—that some people naturally commanded a room, while others, like me, faded into the background.
People who truly knew me thought I was funny, engaging, and warm. But in public settings? It was like I was invisible.
In meetings, my heart would race when I had something valuable to say. The fear of speaking up felt overwhelming, so I often chose silence instead. I convinced myself that actions spoke louder than words, so I became the best doer in the room. I got promotions, awards, and recognition—not because I spoke up, but because I worked tirelessly.
And while that brought success, it didn’t bring the influence, leadership, or impact I truly desired.
I had all these untrue beliefs about what makes someone magnetic, respected, and heard. I thought you had to be the loudest, the most assertive, or have a certain kind of charisma that I just didn’t have.
So, I did what every ambitious woman does—I started reading books, attending seminars, and learning everything I could about communication and influence. But there was a problem.
Most of these teachings were created by men, for men. The strategies felt unnatural and rigid, and they didn’t match my way of expressing myself. I took bits and pieces, applying what felt right, but it never came from a cohesive or holistic place.
Until one day, I had a realization that changed everything.
The Counterintuitive Truth About Influence
I realized that when I truly connected with people, it wasn’t because I had mastered a technique—it was because I was relaxed, at ease, and speaking from a deeper place.
No one had ever taught me how to say what I really felt, not just what I thought.
That’s when it all clicked.
The masculine way of communicating is about stating what you think—it’s structured, linear, and fact-driven. But for women, that’s not enough.
Feminine communication loses its power when it’s only about thoughts. We connect, influence, and lead when we speak from a deeper place—our emotions, desires, and truth.
Once I began communicating from my full feminine presence, everything shifted. I stopped overthinking what to say. I stopped forcing myself to sound “professional” instead of powerful. I stopped feeling like I had to prove myself through more effort and action.
Instead, I learned how to stand in my power, not just my thoughts.
Introducing The Feminine Influence Code
This is exactly what I’ll be teaching inside The Feminine Influence Code, my 3-day coaching experience designed to help you express yourself powerfully, effortlessly, and in a way that feels completely natural to you.
You’ll learn: ✔ The feminine way to command attention—without force.
✔ How to get people to listen—without talking more.
✔ The secret to influencing outcomes naturally while staying fully in your power.
This isn’t about learning more techniques. It’s about unlearning the belief that you have to be someone you’re not in order to be heard.
3 Simple Ways to Communicate with More Feminine Power
While we’ll go much deeper inside The Feminine Influence Code, here are three powerful shifts you can start making today:
1. Speak from Your Body, Not Just Your Mind
Instead of focusing on the “right” thing to say, tune into what you feel. When you speak from a place of deep connection to yourself, your presence becomes undeniable. Try taking a deep breath before speaking and notice how your words flow differently when you’re grounded.
2. Use More Space, Less Words
Powerful people don’t rush to fill silences. They own the room by owning their pauses. Next time you speak, slow down. Take your time. Let your words settle before adding more. This signals confidence and authority.
3. Shift from Explaining to Expressing
Many women feel the need to over-explain or justify themselves. Instead, try this: next time you feel the urge to explain, stop at the first clear statement. Notice how that alone is enough. The more certain you are, the more certain others will be.
Are You Ready to Speak & Lead with Ease?
If you’re tired of feeling unheard, misunderstood, or like you have to work twice as hard just to be taken seriously, I want to invite you to join me for The Feminine Influence Code.
💎 Live Dates: March 18-20, 2025
📍 Where: Online (Small Group Coaching Experience)
🔗 Secure Your Spot Now
It’s time to stop shrinking yourself in conversations and start speaking from a place of true presence, confidence, and feminine power.
I can’t wait to guide you through this transformation. 💫